Does Your Behavior Draw Others to Him?

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  • Posted by Jennifer Baldwin
  • Tuesday, March 15, 2011

    • Remember when you were a kid in school and you learned about magnets? One of the fun things was to put a bar magnet under a piece of paper and sprinkle iron filings. As you sprinkled the filings and shook the paper a bit, the magnetic fields became very evident as the filings were arranged around the ends of the magnet. When you look at the bar by itself, it looked like a plain piece of metal, but when you applied the iron filings, it became very apparent that it was a magnet.

    There’s a lesson there related to our continued study in Titus. As we explore that lesson, let’s read those verses again. “Urge bondslaves to be subject to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, not pilfering, but showing all good faith so that they will adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.”   Titus 2:9,10

    As Pastor Tom dug into this passage, the instructions for all of us who have jobs of one sort or another became clear. The guidelines included:

    *   Be submissive in everything.
    *   Seek excellence in your job, because God is your inspector.
    *   No talking back, be supportive in your talk and other communication and not argumentative.
    *   No pilfering, and that goes for your time at work as much as it means taking home office supplies.
    *   Be a trusted employee, showing all good faith to your employer through your actions.

    Guidelines for believers in their work can be found in a number of places in Scripture. Take a moment to read a few we reviewed on Sunday.

    “Were you called while a slave? Do not worry about it; but if you are able also to become free, rather do that. For he who was called in the Lord while a slave, is the Lord’s freedman; likewise he who was called while free, is Christ’s slave. You were bought with a price; do not become slaves of men. Brethren, each one is to remain with God in that condition in which he was called.”  1 Corinthians 7:21-24

    “Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance it is the Lord Christ whom you serve.”  Colossians 3:23,24

    “Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether to a king as the one in authority, or to governors as send by him for the punishment of evildoers and the praise of those who do right.”  1 Peter 2:13,14

    When you work, do you appear as just another person, like that bar of metal, or when put to the test, does the magnetism of your Christianity draw others to Him like iron filings to a magnet? Remember, your occupation is more than a job, it’s God’s way of providing for you through your employer. You’re placed there as a magnet for the Lord and to draw people to Him. 

    Work: It’s More Than a Job

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  • Posted by Jennifer Baldwin
  • Friday, March 11, 2011
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    • “Urge bond-servants to be subject to their own masters in everything…showing all good faith that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.”

    “Have fun at work. Another day in paradise!” 

    Having arrived a few minutes early for my appointment this morning, I slid into a vacant booth at the café’ and opened my Bible to steal a few minutes of sermon prep. At the round table to my left was gathered what appeared to be a regular coffee and breakfast gang of seasoned gentlemen. With typical big-boy bantering, they wound down their time together. Then one of them stood to his feet to leave, and his buddy said, “Have fun at work. Another day in paradise!”

    With the only apparently still "employed" member of their fellowship group gone, they shifted their conversation to Lincoln Public Schools' HR department. Not exactly complimentary, but certainly, if they were to be asked, full of corrections and solutions! They also had sage comments about the unions of Wisconsin, as you can imagine. I jotted down some of their many insights and thought, “My, what wasted wisdom. These guys seem to have discovered the elusive answers to every labor issue in our nation. Someone probably ought to listen to them!”  So, for a few more minutes I did. Then I thought, “Mmmm…probably not.” My friend arrived and I turned my attention to my breakfast appointment, satisfied that I had discovered at least one nugget to treasure. "Have fun at work. Another day in paradise!”

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    Wisdom for Women

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  • Posted by Jennifer Baldwin
  • Tuesday, March 8, 2011
    • “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.”   Titus 2:3-5


    Paul’s message to Titus as he headed to the Island of Crete is as valid today for the church as it was 2,000 years ago. The church needed leaders, but it also needed people whose lives lived to the glory of God. Our passage for this week points the attention of our focus on women. From the words of Paul, we can outline a dozen guidelines for women of the church. And, they’re broken into internal and external attributes. If you’re a woman in the church, consider your life and how it measures up to the standard suggested by Paul.
    Internal Attributres
    1.   Exudes Godliness—“Reverent in their behavior” When people look at you, what do they see? Do they see someone who bears the appearance of a God lover? Do they see someone who is involved in serving the church?

    2.   Let the Cursor Flash—“Not malicious gossips” It used to be talking over the back fence or the laundry line, but today, gossip can happen happen in an e-mail, a text, a facebook posting as well as over a cup of coffee with a friend. Perhaps this quote will provide a good guideline. “Everything that is said must be true...everything that is true does not have to be said!” Think before you trype. Pause before you send. Better yet, let the cursor flash!

    3.   Marked by Moderation—“Not enslaved to much wine” Do you obsess on the things in your life? It doesn't have to be wine. It could be chocolate, or fries or even that game of tennis you just have to get in. Be the master of your world, don't let it master you.
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    He Who Walks with Wise Men

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  • Posted by Jennifer Baldwin
  • Friday, March 4, 2011
    • “He who walks with wise men will be wise…” Proverbs 13:20

    But growing old does not necessarily make one wise.

    “That is not appropriate behavior!” How many times have I heard the Nana make that statement to our grandchildren? Her mission? Teach them what is and what is not proper etiquette and appropriate behavior in each given situation. And then they went to the pediatric dentist where, if you are a “good patient”, you get to select a gift from a variety of options. And Meredith chose…

    The greatest lessons on appropriate behavior are better “caught than taught”. “A blind man cannot lead a blind man, can he? Will they not both fall into a pit? A pupil is not above his teacher; but everyone, after he has been fully trained, will be like his teacher.” Luke 6:39-40

    Some of my fondest memories of youth ministry years have to do with my sponsor team. Of course, we were radically committed to the spiritual health and maturing of high school students. But we also had an incredible partnership with a “blue chip class” of sponsors. In fact, one pastor’s assessment of our youth ministry was, “You just have a bunch of adults who love being together and don’t mind if some young people hang around with them!” That was a pretty accurate assessment.

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    When I’m Grown Up, Part 2

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  • Posted by Jennifer Baldwin
  • Tuesday, March 1, 2011
    • “Likewise urge the young men to be sensible; in all things show yourself to be an example of good deeds, with purity in doctrine, dignified, sound in speech which is beyond reproach, in order that the opponent may be put to shame, having nothing bad to say about us.” Titus 2:6

    Simply growing older does not mean one is growing wiser! The characteristics of the spiritually mature man, as Paul describes them to Titus, and not innate qualities, but only develop through reliance on the Spirit, reading of His Word, and resting in His power and authority! But the young men of the church are to be encouraged, are to be urged to watch and learn from those who are an example of such spiritual growth.

    “Likewise, urge the young men to be sensible"

    To urge is to most strongly entreat and encourage, to be active in point someone in the right direction. And that direction is one of "being sensible" – of having good judgment, common sense, and self-control. It is interesting that the ‘only’ character quality Paul mentions in terms of young men in this passage is that of ‘being sensible’. The young man who lacks common sense, who lacks judgment, who is lacking in self-control will have a most difficult road ahead to true growth.

    Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23). The lack of self-control is listed among the “quality-traits” of the ungodly…

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